Feeling this post, originally from September 2012, could use another outing. (Will also point out that Jean’s being at location with wifi access—unlike when he’s in the Canadian wilderness—is an improvement. Especially since we’ve figured out Skype. Sort of.)
Jean was away on a canoe trip the last couple days. He was asked a lot, as he usually does on these occasions, “What does Cathy do when you’re gone?”
When obviously, I just sit in the corner and cry.
No, actually… I’m not really sure what to make of the question. (What do they think single people do… all the time?) But to answer it: I do pretty much the same things I do on any other weekend at home. Only alone.
Like, I run errands. I read (especially on my highly addictive tablet). I watch TV and DVDs (especially those programs Jean doesn’t care for). I cook (and eat. And drink wine.) I exercise (inside and out). I call up my parents.
Now, on some of these occasions, I do get together with friends and do stuff (dinner or concert out, or whatever), or get myself to Toronto and meet with a sister or two. I am even capable of taking myself out to a movie or concert—something I occasionally do even when Jean is home, actually, to give him a break from attending events he’s only semi-interested in. (Try it sometime, if you haven’t. Turns out, once you’re in a crowd at an event, it’s really hard to tell you’re a loser with no friends. 🙂 )
I guess that’s what they’re really wondering, eh? How I handle being alone? Well, for an introvert, there are worse things than alone. My weekend was not exciting, but know what? I was never bored.